Thursday, July 30, 2009

Against God's Plan - Pt 1: She's A Bad Influence

Our 10th wedding anniversary is in 1 week from today. The closer we get, the more I think about where we are in our relationship, how far we've come, but mostly how wrong people were about us getting married....

There was opposition. Not from J's parents - they walked me down the aisle to make sure we got married. They weren't letting me go! Gotta love them for that.

I think of all the people who told J NOT to marry me - seems I was a bad influence. Can you believe people told J not to marry ME?? Ahahaha!! For real. Me. Not good. Lord, I'm one of the best things that happened to that boy!

To all the people who thought we were pregnant and that's why we got married so quickly... Hahahahaha!! Not only were we not pregnant, come to find out years later, we couldn't even GET pregnant.

Crazy drama was beginning to unfold with the big wedding we planned for October which is why we moved it to September. The first Monday in August, we looked at each other and asked "Why are we waiting?" We eloped that Friday. It was the best decision for us. Each time we attend a wedding, it reaffirms how right our decision was for us. Perhaps our marriage was against God's plan, but we don't think so (most days, at any rate...)


Jen of A2eatwrite said...

Um... I think we all have those occasional days. ;-)

Wish I'd eloped. Seriously.

Shan said...

My parents dated then split up and then got back together and decided to get married in two weeks. They all thought she was pregnant too. If she was it was the world's longest pregnancy. I didn't arrive until 3 years later.